People

I have never said that I was perfect or that I was better than others. Just keep saying that some people need improving.

We are all different. We all feel different. We think different. We act differently and most of all we all live our own lives.

I know people around me work differently than me. I know they don’t see the world as I do, but how the hell can some people be so ignorant?
No respect for others. No respect for themselves. Everything is other peoples fault and the worlds.
They take no responsibility nor do they admit being wrong.

I work as an IT-Consultant and that means working with both people and hardware. I prefer hardware because it’s easier to get a straight answer from them than people and they don’t blame others for their faults. ( yes occasionally that might happen when everything is broken )
People tend to ignore what has been told and what might be right. They try to keep their own skin by putting the fault on someone else.

Humans are the species that loves to make each other suffer. We fight and we brawl. We use angry and hurting words and we freeze out those we don’t want to deal with.

Why is it so hard for some people to just listen, take it in and try to understand what the other person is trying to tell them?
How hard can it be to try doing as asked?
Why not ask for help to learn when stuck instead of shrugging your shoulders and ignoring the problem? The problem won’t walk away on it’s own.
Why blame someone else on something you could have fixed, if you just hadn’t ignored it?

You see everything at work. The battles, the wrongness, the thoughtless, the blamers, the ignores and all that should be so easy.
We all make mistakes. We learn from them. We try not to do them again.
However, even we do mistakes, we can’t just ignore everything. If we start ignoring what we are supposed to see, hear or do, we will never accomplish anything. We can’t climb under a rock a hide every time something comes up that we don’t know how to deal with. Someone has to do it, if it comes to your table you need to take it! Learn, study, fix and grow!

I myself have done many great mistakes. Never want to do them again, so I have learned from them. I will keep making mistakes, but then I learn something new again.
That is how life works. We learn during our travels and we adapt to what we want to be.
We use others knowledge to grow our own and adapt it to our own advantage. Make it better, make it more useful.

Systems are created by us humans, and they are superior. They show us all the cards when asked the right way and the problem get fixed.
Ask the same questions to a human and all you get is more confusion and frustration.

Will people learn to listen? Will people learn to adapt?
So many does today, but we still have the ones that don’t know which way is up. Just keep stomping on one place hoping to get noticed. Maybe saved.

2 Responses to “People”

  1. christian Says:

    The thing is i have seen many people listen to other´s and still think they are right when its obvius there not.
    So i don´t thing it´s a matter of other´s learning to listen but being able to change at all. I am a stubborn bastard sometimes but if i have someone sit my ass down and explain things i can at least can say “ok i was wrong”.

  2. Mm, a lot of people don’t ever say “I was wrong”. It’s weird. Everyone is wrong sometimes. So I shouldn’t be so hard :)

    Just hope that some people would try a bit harder.

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